"What you most want to be found will be found where you least want to look, essentially. And it's so interesting because if you are willing to turn around, and stand up straight, and face the darkness fully, what you discover at the darkest part is the brightest light. And that is something so well worth discovering. Because there is going to be terrible darkness in your life, and it's going to make you cynical and bitter, and it could easily be that you are just not looking at it enough. Because if you looked at it enough...and you didn't shy away...and you brought everything you had to bear on it...you would find that there was more to you than there was to the horror."